Do you feel exhausted from handling appointments, bills, lunches, and errandsâoften with little support or appreciation?
Are you managing meltdowns with little sleep or dreading dinner planning while your partner stands in the kitchen and the kids pass them to ask you for something to drink?
Are you doing all of this "invisible labor" while juggling a demanding career?
Do you do all of this while feeling like itâs never enough and guilty for working, guilty for not working, and most guilty when taking time for yourself?
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If youâve been questioning who you are and what you want out of life, the #1 bestselling book 'Reclaim Your Self', will guide you to rediscover the answers you need within.
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Do you feel behind and overwhelmed while taking care of everyone else? Do you feel guilty when you spend time on yourself? If yes, then you're not alone.
Feel supported, heard, and understood in the pages of Reclaim Your Self.
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Why I wrote this book
Have you ever felt trapped, even when everything seemed perfect from the outside? I was there too. Overwhelmed, stressed, and overburdened, with a nagging sense that I wasnât living my true self.
Living from a place of fear - fearing change, fearing stagnancy, fearing disappointments - consumed me. Drowning in endless work hours was my escape, a way to avoid letting anyone down. Somehow, busyness became my badge of honor, masking the guilt of not measuring up to self-set standards.
Growing up, I believed my value lay in my productivity. I was haunted by the thought: "If I don't work harder, will I be passed over for the next opportunity?"
Yet, all this came at a price. I pushed my needs to the background, sacrificing my mental, emotional, and physical health. The endless, swirling thoughts, the constant irritability, and the recurring health issues were loud wake-up calls.
But since 2018, the chapters of my life have transformed. Investing in holistic education and healing, I've peeled away layers of limiting beliefs. Today, my relationships with my loved ones, and importantly, with myself, are rich with understanding and connection. I pivoted from a 15-year corporate tech career to embrace a mission: guiding women to reconnect to their Self.
By 2020, I embarked on a journey to pen down the wisdom I gained. Introducing my debut book: âReclaim Your Selfâ which was released and became a bestseller in November of 2022. Dive in to unearth strategies to handle stress, navigate complex emotions, break free from consuming thoughts, and most importantly, reignite the essence of who YOU truly are.
Jessica has a talent for relating to the reader. By sharing her own authentic and honest journey, her eye-opening story led me to so many Ah-ha moments. I related to so much of her story; I felt seen and heard. Jessica's honesty and willingness to share the messy parts were refreshing and made me want to read on. As a former overachiever, type A, control freak, it's not easy being vulnerable; with Jessica, it's easy to let your guard down, it's ok, more than ok, and when you do- her story becomes one of which you too can relate to and reclaim yourself as well.
Christine M Piracci
From the moment I read the first page I couldnât put down this book. It was as if Jessica was reading my mind or that she was present in my life. I love how authentic Jessica is in sharing her story. The real life examples of the difficulties of the day to day life of a working mother really helped me to see how I can reclaim myself. The insights into how to start your healing journey are empowering. This book is a must read for any working mother or woman who has buried her true self and wants to free herself once and for all.
Grainne O Regan
A must-read for any busy mom looking to prioritize self-care and live a less stressful life! With insightful guidance and advice, Jessica helps moms reconnect with their inner selves and build confidence and finally get rid of the ridiculous limiting beliefs we hold on to as women. Highly recommend this relatable read.
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66% of parents reported being burned out
- Report: Ohio State - Examining the Epidemic of Working Parental Burnout and Strategies to Help 2022
69% of women feel run-down and drained of physical and emotional energy after a workday.
- Report: The State Of Burnout In Tech 2022
A whopping 67% of moms report less than 1 hour of solo time that wasnât work or family oriented.
- Report: Motherly 2022 State of Motherhood Survey
WHO IS THIS BOOK WRITTEN FOR?
Reclaim Your Self is written for busy moms feeling guilt-ridden, easily irritated, and overwhelmed. The high achievers who've strived for the next achievement are now burned out and uncertain about what they want and who they are. It was clear once. Then work, motherhood and life happened, pushing desires, dreams, passions, and needs and wants to the back burner.But once you get your hands on Reclaim Your Self you will feel supported, guided, and have a clear path forward.
Regardless of your motherhood status, "Reclaim Your Self" guides you through combating negative self-talk, managing intense emotions, and alleviating stress. Embrace self-love, boost your self-worth, and find your way back to the real you.
What solution does this book provide?
Reclaim Your Self provides you with tools on how to manage stress and how to deal with emotions, along with overcoming obsessive thoughts, all while remembering your worth and rediscovering who you are.
You receive solutions to remove the layers keeping you from yourself. As a result, you will feel supported on your journey of motherhood and work, have the tools to heal old patterns that keep you stuck in people pleasing and guilt, and finally, start feeling like you again!
This book gives you the key to self-love - self-love for smart women like you. As overachievers, we feel that what we do is not good enough, so we always strive for something more. Hence, the lack of self-love. So you are provided with practical tools to fall back in love with yourself.
I'm already busy with limited time to implement self-help tools, what can I expect from this book?
This book is specifically designed to help working moms learn how to deal with emotions, shift their mindset by changing their thoughts, and rediscover their needs and wants.
If youâre spending time on everyone else, have you ever stopped questioning why you donât spend time on yourself? Do you feel worthy of having your needs and wants met? Do you feel worthy of sharing how you feel? Or are you always fine, good, or okay, even when youâre not? If thatâs the case, learning how to know your worth is essential.
Maybe the more profound question is, when did you start questioning your worth?
What do I get from reading Reclaim Your Self?
As a result of this book, you will feel more deeply connected with your Self, less overwhelmed, overworked, and guilty. You will finally give yourself permission to prioritize your needs, get more rest, eat healthier, and take better care of your body. Not because Reclaim Your Self tells you to do any of these things. But because you will finally gain insight into what you need and want in your life.
You discover how to know your worth by realizing and recognizing what disconnected you from it in the first place.
You will start to do things you love, bringing more happiness into your life.
If you're still unsure if Reclaim Your Self is for you
I invite you to review this Free Burnout Report - Women, Work, & Burnout - Designed For Mothers By A Mother.
If there is any part of this report that resonates with you, that you finally feel heard, or not alone. Then Reclaim Your Self is the next step.
Still Don't Know If Reclaim Your Self Is For You?
Itâs the working mom's essentials for:
How to know your worth
How to manage stress
How to deal with emotions &
How to feel bliss
Learn more about me in this podcast:
Dive into an authentic and heartening conversation with me on our podcast, where we delve deep into the journey of rediscovering yourself. Tune in and let the transformation begin!
I'm a multi-passionate woman. I'm an engineer, author, workshop facilitator, mom of three, and so much more. I don't fit into a box, in fact here boxes are not advised. I'm dedicated to inspiring women to be their authentic self. How? I teach women how to break free from limiting beliefs, heal emotional overwhelm, and reconnect with their true selves. To move from disempowerment to empowerment through my writings, videos, and resources.
With 15 years of experience in engineering and a deep passion for personal growth (so much so that I'm getting my masters in Women, Gender, Spirituality, and Social Justice), I blend logic with intuition, offering both practical strategies and spiritual insights for navigating life's challenges.
While working in engineering, I continue my mission through Rooted in Worth, a platform providing resources, workshops, and a YouTube channel designed to support women in emotional healing, self-discovery, and spiritual empowerment.
Through my book Reclaim Your Self, guided meditations, and my transformative three-step rediscovery process, I teach women how to honor their emotions, trust their inner wisdom, and cultivate lives of freedom, confidence, and authenticity.
I am passionate about revealing hidden truthsâwhether in spirituality, societal structures, or self-discoveryâto help women break free from systems that keep them stuck. While knowledge is power, wisdom is life. Here you gain knowledge and wisdom to help set you free. Whether through teaching, writing, or speaking, my mission remains clear: to help women heal, grow, and awaken to their soulâs purpose while navigating both their career and their inner world.
Love,
Jessica